Mom you're also my friend so dear,

Ready to listen with a helpful ear.

Offering advice, a hug and a smile,

Reminding me of all in my life that's worthwhile.

Mom You're My Everything


Mom you're always close in my heart,

Even though we now live far apart.

Distance can't break what has grown strong with time,

And nurtured with love, both yours and mine.

Mom You're My Everything,

Although now you have passed away forever

I will remember you on my whole life.

I will always beg to God,

To keep you and place you on best beside Him.

(YOU DO!)

Now that you are moving forward more and more people will see the results and they will become more and more obvious as time goes on, as you start becoming the perfect person you want, your new life is just around the corner keep your eyes on the prize you can do it, you will make it with the will to win! You have to read motivational books and listen to motivational tapes.

The best tape series is Zig Ziglers How to Stay Motivated Series. a series with six tapes in each, this Along with the books, this will change the picture and move you to a different level if you continue this on a daily bias you will be surprised at how fast you can move in the right direction and see results for yourself.

You must also remove the negative people from your life and choose to hang around the positive people and associate with people whom more are in tune with the new you. You will be surprised at how as you are changing that you will start to look for these types of people and they will start to show up, slowly you faze out all the negative people and the ones that don't quite fit the style of person you are becoming.

If you keep on doing what you've Been Doing, Then Your Going to Keep Getting What You Been Getting! Zig Ziglar.

Well, if you don't like what you been getting you must change the picture, The choice is up to you, only you hold the keys to your future, you can take the ball and run with it, or you can punt the ball and keep things the way they are.

The choice is up to you, the perfect you are inside you, only you can unlock the beast that wants to come out and play. When someone is negative or something is negative, ask yourself does this fit into the me that I want to be? If not, get away from the cancer, as it Will surly bring you down too. Stay positive, stay upbeat, the results are already in, if you want to change you can!

IF YOU PUT THE GOOD STUFF IN YOU ARE GOING TO GET THE GOOD STUFF OUT! IF YOU PUT THE BAD STUFF IN YOU ARE GOING TO GET THE BAD STUFF OUT!

Well if you know something is bad then move and move swiftly as far away from it as you can, not only are they going down, so too will you soon follow in there footsteps. If this is what you are after then I say follow them into that cold dark place we call negativity, the place that can never lead to something good, a very lonely place indeed.

Because all the people who are succeeding in there life will surly be going in the opposite direction. The choice is yours do with your life what you will, after all it's your life, but if you want to go in the direction that the winners go, make the choice to stay positive and choose things that are positive and people that are positive and you are well on your way to becoming the "Perfect You."

That I know you can become, this at times is easy and at other times will require dedication and hard work. Don't wonder why others have this or that, find out how they got there and follow their lead, you may need to alter what I did or someone else did a bit, but you have the blue prints for success at your finger tips, don't be afraid to use them.

You can become the person you want! You can do it! See it in yourself first and then others will start to see it also, the positive you that you now have become and then you can show others how to build the perfect person that you know they are.

IF YOU HELP ENOUGH OTHER PEOPLE GET WHAT THEY WANT, YOU WILL GET WHAT YOU WANT !!

This is where the challenge lies. Deeply ingrained behaviors are difficult to change, for people always seek the easy route or the comfort of the status quo. It may not be easy, but it can be done. Consider this perspective: Always remember that if you do not do the right behavior, you fuel the habit of doing the wrong behavior.

For example, you hardly have any exercise. The mere thought of going to the gym or taking a walk makes you wince. You snuggle under bedcovers, thinking you can do it tomorrow. You spend the day watching television munching unhealthy food. At the end of the day, you feel awful for having no self-discipline. You promise to exercise the following day. When the next day comes, the cycle stays the same.

Think of it this way: when you miss a workout, it's not like you just stay at the same level you're at. You actually take a few steps back. Every time you miss a workout, you have done something to strengthen the habit of not working out. The more workouts you miss, the stronger the negative behavior grows.

How do you change behavior patterns painlessly? You can start small by allotting fifteen to twenty minutes of your television time for exercise time. Try this for about two weeks. When your body is used to this new schedule, you may gradually increase your exercise time to half an hour. This automatically reduces your television time by a total of thirty minutes.

Say you spend most of the time sitting by the window thinking of fears, anxiety, apprehension, and all sorts of mumbo jumbo thoughts entering your mind. Replace this unproductive habit with a productive behavior. You might want to pick up a book and read it, or take your pet dog for a walk (this gives you the exercise you need at the same time). You can also spend idle time in socializing occasionally, doing occasional volunteer work, or just have plain fun with family or friends.

So you see, there are ways of changing behavior patterns. The technique is to do it gradually. Start small with just a few minutes a day for a week or two, increase the time for the weeks, and so on. You will see an amazing transformation in terms of mental, emotional, and spiritual fulfillment after a couple of weeks. The brooding feeling will be lifted and you will feel energized with the new pattern of behavior.

Again, it should be emphasized that for the new behavior patterns to take root, any improvement must be done gradually, giving it time to sink into your life for you to enjoy its long-term benefits.

Attempting to hasten behavioral change by doing it in large doses or in one gulp might not produce promising effects for improvement. Instead, it might lead to pain and frustration that might not give the same motivation to continue with the change process.

A gradual improvement with long-term effects is definitely worth your time and wait.